❋ Builders Club ❋
❋ Builders Club ❋
WHO: Children ages 7-9 who enjoy building and would benefit from extra support with communication, teamwork, flexible thinking, emotional regulation, or friendships. All interested families will participate in a brief screening process to help ensure the group is a good fit for each child and to create a balanced group where everyone can learn and grow together.
WHEN: Tuesdays, 5:00-6:15PM
LENGTH: 12-week group (September 15, 22, 29, October 6, 13, 27, November 3, 10, 17, 24, December 8, 15)
WHERE: Sullivan Counseling Services (107 N. Main Street, Suite 200, Davidson, NC)
GROUP SIZE: 4-6 participants
COST: $70 per session (HSA/FSA accepted!)
ABOUT THE GROUP:
Friendships don't come with an instruction manual.
For some kids, working with others feels easy and fun. For others, it can feel confusing, overwhelming, or frustrating. They may struggle when plans change, have difficulty joining a group, become stuck when someone has a different idea, or find it hard to communicate what they're thinking.
Builders Club is a small therapeutic group based that helps children strengthen these skills through something they naturally enjoy: building.
Using collaborative LEGO® challenges and other hands-on building activities, participants practice communication, flexible thinking, teamwork, problem solving, emotional regulation, apology/repair, and confidence in a fun, supportive environment.
Rather than sitting in a circle talking about social skills, kids learn them by experiencing them!
This group is informed by the extensive research on LEGO®-based therapeutic interventions, including Dr. Daniel LeGoff's pioneering work in LEGO®-Based Therapy, as well as research on adapting the LEGO® Serious Play® methodology for children and adolescents.
WHO IS THIS GROUP FOR?
Builders Club may be a great fit for children ages 7-9 who:
Enjoy building, creating, or solving problems
Want to build confidence in friendships
Experience anxiety in social situations
Become frustrated when plans change
Have difficulty working as part of a team
Tend to be perfectionistic or rigid
Would benefit from practicing communication in a supportive environment
See more FAQs below!
Builders Club FAQs
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While each week has a different theme and challenge, sessions generally follow a consistent structure that helps children know what to expect.
Welcome & Warm-Up (10-15 minutes)
We begin with a quick building activity or creative challenge to help children settle in, connect with one another, and transition into the group.Weekly Skill Spotlight: Brain Builders (10–15 minutes)
Each week focuses on a specific social-emotional skill, such as flexible thinking, managing frustration, teamwork, communication, or problem solving. Through a brief discussion and demonstration, children learn a new concept before putting it into practice.Collaborative Building Challenge (25–35 minutes)
This is the heart of the group! Working together either as a whole group or in smaller teams, children complete a collaborative building challenge that naturally requires communication, cooperation, flexible thinking, and shared problem solving. Everyone has an important role, and the focus is on working together—not building the "best" creation.Reflection & Storytelling (10–15 minutes)
At the end of each challenge, children share their creations, reflect on what happened during the process, celebrate successes, and explore what they learned about themselves and others. Together, we connect those experiences to real-life situations at school, home, and with friends.Every Session Is Designed to Help Children Practice...
Communicating ideas clearly
Listening to others' perspectives
Working toward a shared goal
Managing frustration when things don't go as planned
Solving problems together
Celebrating individual strengths
Building confidence through successful collaboration
Because these skills are practiced while children are actively engaged in meaningful play, learning often feels more natural—and much more fun—than sitting through a traditional lesson!
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Throughout the group, children will have opportunities to strengthen:
Communication
Flexible thinking
Teamwork
Problem solving
Emotional regulation
Perspective taking
Leadership
Apology & Repair
Self-confidence
Friendship skills
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No. All LEGO® bricks, building materials, and supplies are provided during each session. Children simply need to come ready to build, collaborate, and have fun!
While many of our activities use LEGO® bricks, the focus of the group isn't on collecting pieces or building elaborate models—it's on working together, solving problems, and discovering new ways to communicate, think flexibly, and connect with others.
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Many social skills groups focus on teaching children what to say or do in social situations.
Builders Club takes a different approach. Children learn these skills by experiencing them through collaborative building challenges. When plans change, ideas conflict, or teammates need help, those become natural opportunities to practice flexibility, communication, and problem solving with support from the therapist.
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Before enrollment, we'll schedule a brief consultation to learn about your child's strengths, goals, and current challenges. This helps ensure the group is a good fit for both your child and the other participants.
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Possibly! Builders Club is designed to be welcoming to neurodivergent children, including many autistic children. However, because this is a collaborative group, it's important that each participant is able to engage in a small group setting with support.
Children who are likely to be successful in this group are generally able to:
Participate in a small group for the duration of the session
Tolerate taking turns and sharing materials
Engage in collaborative activities with peers, even when it's challenging
Participate safely with minimal one-to-one support
Benefit from practicing communication, teamwork, flexible thinking, and problem solving
Before enrollment, all families participate in a brief screening process. This conversation helps determine whether Builders Club is the right fit for your child's strengths, goals, and support needs, while also ensuring a balanced group where every child has the opportunity to learn, contribute, and be successful.
If this group doesn't seem like the best fit, I'm always happy to discuss other treatment recommendations that may better support your child's needs.
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That's okay.
Some children process by talking, while others process by doing. Building together provides a shared activity that often makes communication feel easier and more natural than sitting face-to-face in a conversation.
Children don't need to be especially outgoing to participate, but they should be willing and able to engage with peers in a small-group setting, even if that looks different from child to child. During the screening process, we'll talk about your child's communication style and determine whether Builders Club is likely to be a good fit.
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Yes. After each session, parents will receive a brief summary of the week's focus, what the group practiced, and simple ideas for reinforcing those skills at home.
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I completely understand that vacations, illnesses, and scheduling conflicts can come up. That said, because this group is built around collaboration and relationships, consistent attendance is important. Each session builds on the previous week, and regular participation helps children develop trust, confidence, and meaningful connections with their peers.
If you're considering this group, I recommend enrolling only if you believe your child will be able to attend at least 9 of the 12 sessions.
Please note that Sullivan Counseling Services' standard 24-hour cancellation policy also applies to group sessions. Sessions cancelled with less than 24 hours' notice will be charged the full session fee.